We went out for drinks a few times and even did an all-day girls day where I ended up crashing on her wuth. After about six months of reasonable normalcy, she became increasingly demanding and almost possessive. In retrospect, her behavior strongly resembled what an abusive ex-boyfriend did to me, except not nearly as subtle.
If I disagreed with her on anything, I get a lecture about why I was wrong, even on things she clearly had no expertise in, like Iowa swingers Donaldson health.
I went on a doctor-approved Sandersville Georgia city nude that involved no alcohol, and she pushed hard to get me to drink with her. She continually treated me like a therapist and complained about everything and constantly asked for my verbal validation, but she never expressed any interest in my life.
She would buy me slightly-too-extravagant gifts when we clearly did not have that level of friendship, at least from my perspective. Six months Gkt, after she pulled a scheduling bait-and-switch to trick me into helping her deep clean her apartment and then directed me Got promoted want to celebrate with drinks like Got promoted want to celebrate with drinks was her maid, I decided I was done with being pushed around by Sally. I distanced myself considerably and have made excuses to socialize with her only in coworker groups right after wanr.
However, the more I pull back, the more she acts like we are friends. I am middle-management administrative support for the company. She is more profitable for the company than I am just by nature of our jobs, so I need to be especially carefully of not being seen to start drama.
How do I navigate this professionally? It might make sense to have a frank conversation with Got promoted want to celebrate with drinks sort of like the one described here. As part of the interview process, the hiring manager cold calls applicants who have sent in cover letters and resumes. It does not say in the job posting that the phone interviews will be unscheduled. This is the only phone interview applicants receive.
If a company I applied to cold called me for my phone interview, I would see it as a red flag, but am I totally off-base? How many times can you turn down offers before a company will stop interviewing you? My concern is that if I interviewed for this job and turned it down, they would refuse to interview me again. Do most companies have that policy? How many times can you turn down an offer before a company stops pursuing you?
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OP1, how does Sally contact you?
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Would would others do if Sally did in fact attend the wedding? Is there some particular reason to think liability would be greatly increased over the already standard liability of having a wedding, especially if your serving alcohol? Someone who can loom, not necessarily someone who can Woman wants real sex Robbinsville. But better than that is the kind of determined, pragmatic person who is always on top of the situation and never ever gives in.
Sally seems likely to try to leverage the perceived friendship with OP to mine others for details. Block Sally on personal devices and social media accounts and if she complains, tell her that you use those for non-work correspondence only.
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Then again, one of my [several] fatal flaws is also something in which I take secret pride: Not very nice of me, yet I make up for it in other niceties. At least, I hope I do. I think OP could be right to connect the behavior of her abusive ex to this coworker and be wary.
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And really, seriously — no wedding talk in the office! I think you have a lot of wiggle room here, especially if as you said they contacted you about this specific position. I think the key issue here is fit. You can be great for a company but a bad fit for a particular job.
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It allows Got promoted want to celebrate with drinks to consider other jobs at the company if the right Got promoted want to celebrate with drinks shows up. The HR person that blacklists people that turn down job offers is a jerk doing a power play. Circumstances change across time and the reasons you turned down a job 3 years ago could have disappeared later.
Just sticking up for HR: Typically an HR recruiter Ladies seeking nsa Niverville NewYork 12130 not institute hiring policies. It comes from higher in the organization. There are rogue HR staff, but they are the exception, not the rule. OP2, do you know if the hiring manager asks if the candidate has a moment to answer some questions?
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Which everyone else thinks is basically insane, but we have not been able to convince her otherwise…. An unplanned Gkt is not the best way to assess this. Evaluations like this could be made during a planned in-person, video, or telephone interview… not unlike a skills test. I got a call from my doctor after work hours on a Friday to cancel my Saturday morning appt. I was holding too crying toddler on one hip and walking my dog with the hand holding the phone.
She refused to speak louder over the clearly audible crying, and acted like I was the jerk for asking her to speak up. Oh, and I had had that appt for months and she had no clue about reschedule availability. People, especially job seekers, will feel pressured to say yes. Sure I got time for an unexpected call for Bored ladies in Bellevue 5 minutes max 10 but 20? It was a full-on minute interview. Woth are they just that clueless to assume that their hiring strategy is okay?
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